Parenting Stories and Tips are challenging, and everyone has their own set of values that will shape their parenting style. But there are a few common parenting tips that can help all parents be more successful in raising their kids.

Redirect negative behavior: Try not to react to your children’s arguments with criticism or threats. Instead, redirect their attention to something productive (like reading or playing a game). Use positive language and a friendly tone of voice when communicating with them.

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Be consistent: Make a routine that your children can count on every day (bedtimes, meals, chores). Stick with it as much as possible to teach them consistency. Be consistent with discipline, too–don’t discipline them for talking back one day but ignore it the next.

Don’t use physical punishment, such as hitting or spanking. Punishments can damage a child’s self-esteem, and they are rarely effective in the long run.

Be a good role model: Kids learn by watching you, so always act appropriately. Reward desired behavior as often as you can with verbal praise, touch, or something tangible such as a toy or food. Be careful not to overdo it with rewards, though–children who are rewarded for everything will only expect more and more.

Enjoy the journey: Parenting can be hard, but it’s important to remember that it will pass. Your child will not be a baby forever, they won’t have tantrums forever, and you won’t be tired forever either.

So enjoy the good times and keep your eyes on the prize–raising kids who are capable, respectful and loving adults.